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Oh, my golly gosh! My hands have become Emory boards (limas de uñas). The weather has completely changed in the past two weeks- colder, not cooler, at night, and my hands are the barometer of that change.

To say that my whole body needs lotion is the understatement of this new year. Up North, this change usually happened around the middle of September. But with the weather, here, so warm, until two weeks ago, it is just now happening. But, right now, it is happening with a vengeance. Do I really care? Not much. Well, that is not entirely true. I care enough to notice that they are actually starting to hurt, and burn, with the dryness. Poor Diana. I knew that is what you were thinking. And, thank you for it 😉

I have started using Ivan’s Aquaphor, which is more of an ointment than anything. And it lasts quite a while. If I did not feel the need to wash my hands every thirty minutes, it seems, maybe they would not be quite so dry. You can take the nurse out of the operating room but you cannot make her forget her skill set.

I do not, honestly, think I can explain in words how happy we are here. I thought, at first, that it would be difficult for me to adjust- to the different language, altitude, customs. But it has not been difficult at all.

Hopefully, by the time you read this, we will be in the condo. I will write a special post for when that happens, to be sure.

Today I sent a couple of photos of our new table. It is absolutely exactly what we wanted. For awhile it will be folded, alongside the wall as you come into the condo. When we have a “dinner”, with family over, we will pull it over to the rectangle portion of inlaid tile.

The kitchen cabinets want only their glass fronts, and the granite countertop needs to be sanded at the junctions- it has a bit too much adhesive at the moment. The WC accessible bathroom needs two small pieces of tile flooring, and that will be that, in there. The appliances need to be hooked up, and checked to be in working order, then we can, officially, move in. Getting closer, every day. Stay tuned.

I will try to describe this amazing market, because it is where we will be going to buy all of our perishables- meats, vegetables, fruits, flowers, spices, herbs, and, hopefully, some small plants.

There is another market, offering similar items for sale, however, it is much larger, and has way too many people in it. This market, however, is about three kilometers from our condo, and has everything perishable we need. Everything is colorful, bright, happy. And who does not want to shop in that kind of atmosphere?

Side note: Enrique showed us a restaurant inside the market Popular, that serves the best food we have encountered yet. Did I mention that it is incredibly affordable? The other day I had a plate of Enchiladas de pollo en Mole Rojo, that cost me forty five pesos, or two dollars and short change. I also ordered a Lemonade with Chia, that was a full liter, for, I think, less than twenty pesos, or one dollar. We were all so full when we were finished, it was a long walk, (two blocks), back to the car. 😂

It is amazing just how important your car’s battery is, is it not? Without a fully charged battery, you can go nowhere in your car. How easily we take these things for granted.

We had gotten ready to go to Costco recently, went outside, got in the Mercedes, turned the key, and sat there, staring at the dashboard in utter silence. Ivan turned the key again- nothing. What?!?

It has been years since we had a vehicle that did not start. It is so frustrating!! I want to get in it, and see if my key will start it. Of course not. (I was sure that my key would magically start it, but, alas, it did not. I really knew it would not- but I was trying to be hopeful).

Well, Ivan has a super duper charger that should have us going fairly quickly. Stay tuned.

He tried charging it with two different chargers to no effect. Then, he tried jumping it with Marcos car- nada. Lastly, and miraculously it worked, he jumped the battery with one of Juan’s Mercedes. Yay.

So now, we are on our way to AutoZone to have them check, and replace (more than likely) the battery. It only had a four year guarantee so it is probably time. By for now.

Post script: We did not go to AutoZone, Marco took us to Runsa Auto parts, and they checked the battery.

“Change is inevitable, and, necessary, like the seasons Mr. Palmer. I suggest you embrace it.” NCIS: Season 9, episode 6 – “Thirst”.

I was watching an episode of NCIS, on New Year’s day, when those words were uttered from the mouth of the esteemed Dr. Mallard, aka Ducky, to his young, plucky, assistant Jimmy Palmer. It made me think of all of the changes that are coming soon, with this new year. Also, about, how, for our own piece of mind, we should try to embrace those changes.

Sometimes, however, that is easier said than done, We, each of us, accept changes differently. Some go kicking, and screaming, into it, while others quietly acquiesce. (I have been wanting to use the word acquiesce from the start 😂).

I, for one, will not try to tell you how to accept change, as we are all adults here, and, as such, have our own minds. It is solely yours choice to make. Whatever changes befall you, however, I suggest you do whatever research you need to do to made the decisions you need to make, weighing all of the pros and cons, and then, with the facts in your possession, make the needed change(s).

If you are interested in finding a new place to work, check out everything you need to know about the place in order to make an intelligent decision. Do not make the leap solely on someone else’s information. That usually leads to someone being disenchanted in the end. No, do your own research, get the facts, then look at all options.

Side note– Sorry, but I am so distracted at the moment. One of Ivan’s uncle’s stopped by the house earlier, and after the ritual welcoming hug, and quick peck on the cheek, his cologne is still on me. We love him dearly, however, his cologne is overwhelming me still, and it has been at least an hour now. Wow!

Synopsis- do not be afraid of change. As Ducky said, (and you know you can trust Ducky), it is not only inevitable, but necessary. I hope each of you finds the means necessary to make the best changes that need to be made in your life. Let me know what challenges you are facing this year. Peace, and tranquility, are my hopes for all of you.

So many times, when we are outside, we end up people watching. With close to nine million people here, in México City alone, there are plenty to see.

They come in every shape, size, color, and, creed. Tall, short, thin, heavy, black, brown, and a few of us “güeras”, (pronounced gwehr-ahs). That is what I am considered. And there are not many of us here.

A couple of weeks ago, we were walking through Zapamundi, the mall that houses Soriana, our favorite grocery store. As we passed this group of people, who were waiting to get into the Asian restaurant, a woman, about my age, with the same color skin, and, hair, turned around, and smiled at me. I smiled in return. We both had to be thinking the same thing- “nice to see another güera, for goodness sake”.

Fortunately, I have had no trouble adjusting to a different culture, this time. When we moved to Houston, I was twenty seven, and there were enough güeros to get by. But, in nineteen eighty six, we moved to Laredo, TX – I was done for. I cried for the first six months we were there. The culture shock was more than I could manage.

Not anymore. Now, we enjoy going out, sitting on a short wall, say, while our car is being washed, just watching what people are doing. It is so much more fun, now that I have so much more life experience. I cannot get enough.

I just learned that during the last, large, 7.1, earthquake here in México City, almost 4 kilometers of buildings, including the Liverpool mall I have shown you, were demolished as a result. Just on one street alone. It did not remain so very long, however.

Liverpool was rebuilt within the year, as were many of the other buildings, but under much stricter standards. If you remember the photo showing the “bridge”, in the middle of the mall, (it was one of several in the mall), they all collapsed, on top of the shoppers, injuring and killing many, many people.

Throughout much of the city, where the damage was worse, however, there are hundreds of buildings, still under reconstruction. Evidently, much of the money that the US said they were sending, as a relief effort, that was “supposed” to be allocated for the purpose of rebuilding the city, was “confiscated “, so I am told. No one is one hundred percent sure where it has gone, but, gone it is.

There are several suppositions, however- 1) (this is the most popular thought) – that the US government never actually sent the money, 2) the money was sent to México, but got misdirected after its issuance, and last, 3) the money was sent somewhere, just not here.

Any explanation is possible- who is going to admit anything? Those companies that have enough of their own money are coming back in spades. Those without are taking much longer for a come back. Many small mom and pop stores are gone forever- or have had to move elsewhere.

Always something to be grateful for when one turns ones head to look a different way.

There is a new cleaning lady, here at the house. And, gosh, can she clean!?!

Today is her third time here, and I have never seen a person clean like she does. She actually moves the furniture! (Obviously, not everyone does).

The first time she was here, last week, she washed the frosted glass window partition that separates the dinette from the actual dining room area. Then she moved all of eight chairs from around the dining room table, and swept the carpet underneath the table!!! She even swept and washed the patio!!! Who does this type of cleaning?

Pepe told me this morning that Adriana is a nurse. Well, no wonder! Now I understand. As a nurse, she understands the importance of cleaning, and how, in this time of germs, and bacteria, it is important to clean as much as possible, as well as possible. Arturo, (P&P’s #2 son, remember the party?) has been sick for a week with what sounds like bronchitis. And, two weeks ago, Juan, our cousin, was in bed for at least a week with a horrible cough.

I know- you hear this every year, but I will repeat it for you, again. Please, if you do nothing else this cold and flu season, WASH YOUR HANDS. Every time you cough, or sneeze, stop what you are doing, and wash them- well! This can save you, and those around you, from getting the flu.

I have gone many a year without getting sick, while others around me are hacking and coughing, forgetting to wash their hands. Those of you, my former coworkers, may remember me saying, “if you touched something, wash your hands. If you think touched something, wash your hands. If you are not sure if you touched something, wash your hands”. Seriously, you cannot go wrong washing your hands. It just may save your life someday.

Now that we are living in a country we do not know, we each keep a bottle of hand sanitizer in our purses, and wash our hands as soon as we leave any store, or building we have been in.

If you look online at the people society feels they need to remember as having passed away this past year, so many of them have died of “pulmonary complications from an infection of the lungs”. As we should all know by now, infections in the lungs are spread by coughing, and/or sneezing, which is then spread by the airborne droplets, which can, then, become surface infectants. Washing all surfaces, plus, of course, your hands, will help decrease the spread.

Enough sermon. It is just something I have been very passionate about for many years. Thanks for listening.

Enjoy the winter in peace, and good health. (WYH).

We recently left our favorite store, well, really, one of our favorites, Costco. As we were pulling up to the stop lights, we noticed several pylons, all around the crosswalks.

Normally, none of us would have said a thing, or, have taken notice, but, in looking down, in between said pylons, we noticed that the city workers were painting the crosswalks a beautiful orange, blue, green, and, yellow. The design is modern, and, coming across this surprise of colors, well, it just makes a person smile.

That has always been one of the biggest draws for me, coming here to live- the colors. The cars, here, for example, are all different shades of red, blue, green, turquoise, yellow, pink, and orange; not all black, or white, or grey. The houses, shops, restaurants are colorful as well. You cannot go one block, which contains ten to fifteen houses, and/ or shops, and/or restaurants, without walking, or driving passed a rainbow of colors.

At night, most of the these same buildings are illuminated, and now, especially since it is close to the holidays, they are lit with all types of Christmas lights. Stunning.

Colors here are essential, I believe. Everywhere you look, people are wearing brightly colored blouses, skirts, jackets, shoes, handbags- you get the idea. I believe, also, that the people that “appear” to have the least amount of worldly possessions have the most amount of color around them.

In the mercados, there are women that sit, and make colorful beaded items- bracelets, coin purses, earrings, book markers, all with the most beautiful, but tiny beads. And not a single one of them wears glasses. Amazing.

I know that, up North, there is only the color of Christmas, right now, and, as I recall, that would be enough. But not for me. I need color everyday, and as much as I can get. We have yet to find material for the cushions that will go on our couches, and chair. But, the real colors will be in the pillows we get that will go on the couches, etc.

Our bedding I actually bought purposely full of colors. One of the duvets I bought, this time last year, is actually called Belles Artes- the huge performing arts center here in downtown México City. How prophetic was that?

Enjoy all of the color you can, when you can. Let me know if they make you smile, too. Happy Holidays everyone.

There have been so many things we have purchased, online, of course, for the condo, that have been sent from the US. Now, since we discovered Amazon.com.mx.®️, and, MercadoLibre®️, we can get them here, and not pay the large shipping and handling charges. Not only those, but the prices of the items, themselves, are more expensive, sometimes, from Amazon.com®.

***I interrupt this post to let you all know we are moving next weekend, to be more precise- the eighteenth of January, in the year of our Lord two thousand and twenty!!! After an almost six month remodel, Luis texted us this morning, (09/01/20) that he will have the condo finished by the end of next week, that our table is finished, our bed is almost finished, and, possibly one, if not both Murphy beds will be finished very soon. We are going over to the condo this Saturday to put the window film on all of the windows, before the rooms fill up with totes, and boxes. We are both so excited, it will be hard to sleep. And, as I have my first appointment with Paty’s brother, Dr. Arturo Lara, (remember the Halloween photo of the guy with the saw through his head? That is Arturo), I do not want my blood pressure to be high. Ok. You have read the good news, now, back to the original post.***

So many things we took for granted, living in the States, that we now have to pay through the wazzoo to obtain. Salt, for example. We have enjoyed using Diamond Crystal®️salt, because it is flakes of salt, not grains, for many years. I ordered some from Amazon.com. They did not get delivered when they estimated they would, so I contacted the seller, only to be told it was being held up at the Customs office. Customs, here, wanted a certificate from the government here because this is considered a food item. Technically, it is a food item, and, you cannot bring food from the US into México, or, into the US from México.

Needless to say, I was not to be deterred. I was fortunate enough to find the flaked salt on MercadoLibre®️ for only one arm, and one leg. Pumpkin pie filling- another luxury. Only had to sacrifice the other arm for that. The good news is that both were delivered in only three days.

So, going forward, we are making lists of things we need to buy in the States, when we return in August of next year. We are planning to bring an empty suitcase to fill with our bounty, contraband, same thing. It is too expensive to continue to buy the things we are used to having, and have them shipped down here. I suppose we could try to get used the similar things being sold here.

No, probably not!

Anyway, enough for tonight. It is getting late, and with the above insertion of information, it is going to take us awhile to relax enough to get to sleep. Thank you, all, for your care, and consideration for the events in our lives. I hope you still find this somewhat entertaining. And, since no one has left any comments on things you want me to find out about, I am going to continue with my daily rambles. Should you want to know something, in particular, just let me know. Soon, it sounds like, I will be sharing the “move experience” with you. That ought to be interesting, as nothing here ever goes the way you would imagine it should. Stay tuned.